Saturday, December 28, 2013

Christmas Eve and Christmas Photos

Decorating Cookies for Santa, even Emily got into the action!

Christmas Eve Craft

Dave is suddenly an expert at taking 'selfies' so here's one of us during Twas the Night Before Christmas reading

Nolan's stocking from Santa- superheros and a pogo stick

Fireman Nolan

I'll just bite this open!

Wednesday, December 18, 2013

Eight Months (and one day)

Emily is EIGHT months old!  Wow.  She's thriving and while she presents several challenges, she is really amazing.  She's got two teeth, one is a little bigger than the other, as you can see.  She is crawling as of Sunday.  She pulls herself up to standing in her crib and on some of her toys and today showed signs of cruising (except she stepped on her own sock and got stuck).   She gives wide, open-mouthed kisses and forehead 'hugs'.  She eats a wide variety of foods and her meals have quickly moved to finger foods and no purees.  She enjoys most foods that we like.  She does not, however, like tofu, something Nolan gobbled up as a little guy and still does.  She has enjoyed a chicken, potato and carrot dinner and last night she ate 3/4 of a racket ball sized meatball and about 1/2 cup of bowtie pasta with sauce.  She can feed herself if we put food on a fork and she can pick food up and eat it in small pieces. It's comical how much (most nights she eats more dinner than Nolan- but that's not hard) and how hungrily she eats.  She LOVES watching Nolan.  She continues to nurse but has been taking formula in a sippy cup throughout the day and seems to enjoy the cup too.  She is beginning to protest when someone takes a toy away.  She seems to enjoy books (confession we don't read to her as much as we did Nolan) and can screech and squeal pretty loud.  She does a little dance when she hears music and really enjoys toys that make music.   She babbles a lot.

She still struggles with other people holding her and she is very distracted when nursing which often means if she hears the most fascinating person in the world (Nolan) through the door she'll stop nursing and look around- she could not nurse with Nolan in the room or in public at this point without exposing me.  She is not a cuddler or snuggler, we get the same stiff arm from her as we did from Nolan at this age.  (Though Nolan is turning into quite a cuddler and prefers to sit on my lap rather than on the floor- though I think it's just attention getting, I don't care, I love the snuggles) 

She is sleeping quite well, she takes two naps and sleeps through the night from about 745-630.  

Tuesday, December 17, 2013

Nolan's Christmas Concert

Nolan had his first Christmas Concert today.  I could tell he was super nervous and embarrassed but also very very excited.  He was bouncing around all morning and was thrilled Dad was going too.  He was the VERY first person to walk into the room which must have been overwhelming but his teacher was right there to help with the songs etc.
 It's a church preschool so the concert started off with a prayer.  Here's Nolan praying- doesn't he look so peaceful?  That's sweet.  
 He sang the songs or at least mouthed the words and did most of the hand motions. At one point he looked like he was going to lose it, start crying.  Another little girl started crying and I could see his sympathy coming out but the teacher distracted him and he held it together.
 Notice his red cheeks?  That's nerves.  I get them too.  He did great, we were so proud of him and it was SO cute to watch.  
I just love this kid!

Monday, December 16, 2013

On The Move

Emily is on the move.  She started crawling yesterday.  She has crawled but it took a lot of encouragement and would move each leg and each arm one pace and then stop and sit down.  Yesterday she started crawling.
So she's on the move.  She's moving to get toys, she's crawling to see where people go, she's on the move.  Look out world! 

Wednesday, December 11, 2013


So Emily can sit up by herself now.  
What that means is now we had to lower her crib.  It was a family affair.  I love the boys working and Emily supervising.  So cute.  Emily is moving a lot but she's really not crawling.  She crawls a single pace, then sits back again.  I don't remember if Nolan did this but it's funny.  She's moving a bit backwards and forwards a teeny bit. 
And, see photo below, she's doing some yoga moves- downward dog is a frequent one, she also does plank. 
And she also does this below, I'm not sure what it can be called but from sitting she pushes herself to standing on the outsides of her feet, while her feet stay in prayer position.  She is still not crawling around. 

Monday, December 9, 2013

Visit With Santa

Nolan was a little nervous and really excited to see Santa this year.
He wouldn't sit on Santa's lap but did tell him in a clear voice what he wanted for Christmas- a pogo stick and superheros.   
 And then we attempted a photo with the two kids.  Not a bad one, I'd say!   
I have to say, it's been really fun gearing up for Christmas this year.  We've declined lots of christmas activities in order to maintain some sense of order and fascination with it.  Wow, there are SO many kid activities for Christmas we could EASILY do something every single day.  It's crazy.  He has a christmas concert for preschool next week that I start to tear up about just thinking about it.  He's been running around the house singing about Baby Jesus which is different but fun.  He's excited.  I can't wait to see what he wears for the concert (he mostly picks his own clothes to wear, that's why he's got on short sleeves in this photo).

Friday, December 6, 2013

He Doesn't Know It Yet

But we are hand delivering this letter to Santa this afternoon.  I'm SO SO excited.  

Wednesday, December 4, 2013

Just Chillin

Not much to report today.  Enjoy these photos
 Isn't this the cutest picture?  She's already doing a silly fake smile!

Monday, December 2, 2013

She Crawled!

So on Thanksgiving Emily crawled.  She took one step (with her knee) and one movement of her hands to move her in the forward motion.  She was trying to crawl her way off of the blanket we put her on so she could pull at the carpet and eat it.  Everyone has things that motivate them!  She didn't crawl across the room but she did deliberately crawl.  She has since crawled a few other times but is not really getting around, though she can reach herself quite far.  It's exciting.  We also moved her into the big tub and give her and Nolan a bath together some nights.  Here's a photo of them taking a bath together.

Friday, November 29, 2013

Happy Thanksgiving!

This year we celebrated Thanksgiving just our family unit.  It was strange not being surrounded by family but at the same time it was a lot of fun to focus on making this holiday a special one for Nolan since he is starting to understand that holidays are special days.  So we started the day off with some pumpkin waffles that I pre-made the night before.  They were very good, the recipe made just enough, everyone liked them, there was little to clean up after and it felt a little special.
 Next we watched the Thanksgiving Day Parade which was really fun.  Nolan was very interested and Emily was wildly excited about watching the dance numbers.  I was weepy at how special this felt, all of us watching the parade just as I remembered doing when I was little.  I loved the big balloons and shed a tear when they made the big announcement that the balloons WOULD be flying this year.  After the parade I made a scavenger hunt for Nolan to do.  I wanted to get him outside if only for a little bit.  The 'something soft' thing he found was our neighbors dog and the something beautiful he declared was our family (with a little bit of help from me after walking around the yard a few times searching for flowers).  This is the stick he chose and decided it looked like a reindeer's antlers.
 After lunch and naps we made turkey headbands to wear at dinner.  THIS was awesome.  Nolan seemed to love it and even complimented me in the manner that I organized the craft.  We made one for each of us, even Emily.
 And here was our attempt at a family portrait with the headbands on (while balancing the camera on top of a wine glass).
 And the obligatory turkey leg photos...  Emily ate a TON of food but did not eat any of the turkey leg.  She preferred the mashed potatoes with a bit of turkey hidden in there.  And she liked the stuffing too but preferred the mashed potatoes. 
 Nolan did not eat any turkey leg either.  And he had to be bribed to eat any of his dinner except for teeny little forks of mashed potatoes.  Please note the very special drinks in very special glasses for big boy- sparkling cranberry apple juice.  He did not like it, sadly, but was the first to cheers and say Happy Thanksgiving which I totally loved.
 This is how Emily at most of her meal, I'd scoop up the food on a spork and hand it to her.  she'd figure out how to get the food off and eat it, which gave me a few moments to eat my own dinner before she'd start asking (grunting, kicking and flailing her arms) for more.
After dinner we ate the apple pie that Nolan and I made.  It's funny because I don't really like Thanksgiving food/meal.  And growing up I loved to help make the apple pie but I don't actually enjoy eating the apple pie either.  But I love to eat the raw apples coated in cinnamon and sugar.  I asked Dave if he wanted me to make a pie and he said no but Nolan came home from preschool one day declaring he was excited about thanksgiving to eat apple pie.  So Dave and I shrugged and said 'I guess we're making pie'. Nolan helped make it.  It was so special for me to make it with him. Surprisingly (or not really) he did not want to eat the sugar coated apples, but did eat the raw flour off of the counter...  So after our dinner we cut a piece of pie for Nolan and he did not want to eat it.  After encouraging him to try it he did and declared that he did not like it- I get it, little buddy. I get it.  
All in all it was a really super thanksgiving.  A different, small, laid back, wonderfully kid-focused thanksgiving.  It was a really lovely day.

OH!  And Emily crawled!  More on that tomorrow!

Wednesday, November 27, 2013

Different Kids/ Different Play

Oh these two are different.  While Emily seems perfectly content munching on whatever she can get her hands and or mouth on (including eating the carpet), Nolan does not.
He prefers to want to play with whatever she is munching on.  Or just sitting begging me to play with him-even when I am sitting waiting for him to play with ANY toy we own except for the one Emily is gumming at that very moment.  It is agonizing that every day he wants less and less to do with his toys, even to the point I've considered removing every toy except a handful from our playroom to see if he is overwhelmed with the options.  But really, I think he just prefers to interact with people over playing with toys.
And then we have a break through.  We find something that occupies his time and it's hard to convince him to do something else.  I got these paint pages where you use water to activate the paints on the top of the page and then paint the page.  HE LOVED IT.  And he did about 10 before he started to wear down his interest.  
So what's the deal?  Is he bored with his toys?  Does he just want attention?  What can we do to get him to play independently?  Ever? Last weekend we pleaded with and begged him to play by himself all morning.  He instead followed us around, moped, jumped around, took toys away from Emily and followed us around some more then when it was time for nap he was playing perfectly happily in a separate room.  It lasted about 20 minutes which was amazing.  Is there something we can do to make him play by himself better?

Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Playing in the leaves

Finally our tree dropped it's leaves.  So Nolan is free to rake and play for at least a few days before the snow and cold weather arrives.
Emily seemed to like the leaves too, mostly because she wanted to eat them. 
 And Nolan preferred to toss them in the air.

Monday, November 25, 2013

Bath Monster

Wow.  What an awesome weekend!  Of course there are no pictures of all we did so I'll just give you the highlights.  First, we discovered this little monster got a tooth!  It felt a little sharp on November 23 but for sure the next day we felt it.   
On Friday Nolan and Dave went to the Princess and Pirate event at the XL center.  It was fun for them to do something together and Nolan did great.  He loved it, wore his costume and despite Dave's hopes, Nolan did not want to eat anything at the show (they even had beer available but Nolan said no- what else is new, the kid just doesn't care about eating!).  

While Nolan and Dave were out Emily and I did some shopping and I bought her some new clothes.  She's hovering in this size for longer than I expected and she's getting easier so I got a few cute outfits.  Some babydoll shirts and leggings and a Christmas dress (oh it is so cute).  It was fun to shop with her, people were walking into things trying to coo at her and over and over I got told how cute she is.  It's funny because I don't shop with Emily very much, not like I did with Nolan because it's so hard to get anywhere with the both of them and rarely I have solo time with her.  It was so fun!

Saturday we had a lot of errands and trading off the kids to get stuff done and a birthday party.  Sunday was COLD and we didn't do anything which was so nice.  We hung at home, watched football and cleared out the garage so Dave can park inside.

Thursday, November 21, 2013

Really Nice Day

A few days ago we had some really nice weather so we went outside to play.  It was lovely.
Emily got some good playing time in, outdoors and Nolan got some running and playing in.  I tried to convince him that kicking (hard) the beach ball wasn't a great idea but he wouldn't listen (sigh). 
 So he was really upset when he deliberately kicked it into the rose bush and it got a hole in it.  Poor kid.
 He got over it quickly and did some raking.  He made a pile under the slide but prefers to jump from the top of the slide into the leaves rather than sliding into the leaves.  And Emily just likes to eat the leaves.
 This boy loves being outside.  Lucky for him, Emily loves to watch the trees and leaves so it worked out well.
 A great way to spend a morning.

Monday, November 18, 2013

Seven Months Old!

Where do I even start?  Emily is 7 months old.  Wow, there have been lots of changes this month but mostly to her eating.  She's still happy, even happier at this age.  She continues to nap every day twice, mostly for 45 minutes but sometimes for longer.  She likes to play, laugh and has a cute, almost shy, personality.  Her behavior around other people is good, improving.  She's let other people hold her and while she doesn't seem to love it, she isn't wailing either.  And she's eating.  Eating lots.  On Saturday she ate more dinner than Nolan did, we had spinach and artichoke stuffed shells.  
I've been following the method called Baby Led Weaning except I can't actually say that I do it since I started Emily on purees and can't seem to get her off the purees.  The idea of BLW is to skip the purees and just give your baby food that is safe and let them learn to feed themselves.  No spoons, no purees and easy for the parent.  Purees were a breeze when we had just Nolan because it was just Nolan.   But with Emily it means that I make Nolan his lunch, me my lunch and Emily gets her lunch.  When her lunch was pureed, I just couldn't get it all ready in time and she'd be too hungry and wolf down the puree and then vomit half of it because she was frantic eating.  Now I toss some food on her tray and let her go to town while I get Nolan's lunch out and mine too.  She's eating purees and solid foods.  
For breakfast she typically has oatmeal cereal/puree with some mixed in grownup (cooked) oatmeal and either chopped bananas or hard boiled egg yolk and some pureed fruit (sometimes mixed with yogurt).  For lunch she has some sweet potato puree with chopped up chicken and a protein pancake or zucchini mini muffin.  For dinner we've been making some oatmeal bars, store-bought babyfood with chicken or turkey in it and some baby cereal with something chunky in it.  And if she joins us at our dinner we'll put some food on her tray or give her some crusty bread  to chew on or food Nolan has discarded.  

She eats a lot more slowly and less franticly (read: not screaming, arms flailing and grunting) when it has textures, when she has to chew it.  She's capable of getting the food from her tray into her mouth which is really amazing to watch.  She seems interested in the food we're eating and I'm not so worried about giving it to her.  We made grilled cheese and turkey sandwiches last week.  Nolan nibbled two bites and Emily ate 1/4 of the sandwich.  

She just started getting herself into a crawling position. She reaches for toys and can move herself around on her belly, between rolling and reaching she can move around.  She loves toys with music and songs that go when you press a button.  She puts everything in her mouth.  She doesn't have any teeth yet and enjoys standing.  She doesn't bounce in the bouncer.  She doesn't seem very interested in books but is wildly interested in everything around her which makes for some tough times nursing.  She can yell and shrieks pretty loudly too!

Thursday, November 14, 2013

Making some changes

I love these kids.  I love them a lot.  I'm amazed daily at what Nolan is doing and how much he's changed.  Emily is amazing too, learning to eat, move, getting ready to crawl, etc.  But I have to ask: Is it supposed to be THIS hard?  I'm just not sure but other people don't seem to have as hard of a time with things as I am having.  So rather than (continue to) complain about it or speculate ways to help make things easier I am actually making some changes to things in hopes that I don't make things harder.

First, I've done away with that damn infant carseat carrier.  Sure, it might be easier to bring her in and out for preschool drop offs but my neck, shoulder and back are aching so badly I can't turn my head most days.  It's too darn heavy for me, I just can't do it.  I'm figuring out the new seat and it's not as hard as I speculated it to be.
Second, we enrolled Nolan in a post-preschool class so he now goes to school on Tu/Th from 8:45-1:15.  It's a very long day for him.  Previously I was bringing him to school for 845, dropping him off, rushing home to put Emily down for her nap and then waking her up (if she was still asleep) in order to nurse her early so I can pick him up at 1115 then going to the playground until 12, coming home for lunch and putting them both to bed at 130 for naps.  It was JUST enough time to get NOTHING done.  Don't get me wrong, during her nap I can get stuff done but I didn't.  I'd blog, email (read: waste my hour) instead.  

Third: I went to the doctor.  I have no idea why I feel so awful most days but begged him not to laugh at me and blame parenthood when I told him I'm feeling rundown, have a headache most days and just feel rotten. Who knows, we'll do testing to find out but at least we are trying to make me feel better.  BUT while I was there I saw a sign for kids that said they should get 9 hours of sleep, 5 fruits and veggies, 2 hours of screentime, 1 hour physical activity and 0 sugary drinks and realized that should apply to grownups too.  SO I am revamping my world a little bit, as much as I can.  
Fourth: we are attempting to change her schedule a little bit.  I know the 'if it aint broke, don't try to fix it' may apply here.  This may be something that really screws up her world but I'm miserable trying to keep up with her current schedule of needing something every hour.  Instead of constantly wondering if switching to formula would make things easier on me we are adding some sippy cups to her day and trying to push her nursing back a little bit so I am nursing just before she eats her meals, rather than an hour before -nursing at 11, then food at 12/1230 and then nursing at 3, then food at 4/430 is really a lot of demands when you have a toddler who wants to leave the house ever.  I keep thinking formula will be easier because the schedule i kept with Nolan was less fragemented.  He ate food, then immediately had a bottle then a nap.  But for some reason I just fear that if we go that route we'll mess up what we currently have which is fair to good.

Fifth: Her napping is back to only 45 minutes at a clip.  However she is eating like a champ and happy when she's awake so it's not completely terrible except that I don't have any downtime which makes it hard to do things like figure out how to eat 5 fruits or vegetables a day or plan dinners that actually feed us for the amount of time I plan them to (we're off by two nights this week assuming leftovers would give us two meals but didn't).

So all in all things are ok.  I wish they were awesome.  Emily seems happy.  Nolan seems busy and tired but he seems to like his longer days at preschool.  I'm finding some time to actually play with Emily which is a big change for me.  So hopefully these little things help make our lives feel better, easier, less impossible.  But if Emily could go back to her 1.5 hour naps I'd be able to play offense versus just sneaking by each day.

Tuesday, November 12, 2013


Nolan is funny.  He's a funny kid, he really just wants to charm you and make you laugh.  Emily finds him hysterical.  
So after he finishes his lunch and she's still munching away, sometimes he'll put on a show. 
 Which often means he'll jump around, maybe do jumping jacks (which she finds very funny) and then sometimes fall down.
 Whatever it is he's doing, she wants to see him.  They are so darn cute, these two.